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5. Jill Scott — I’m Not Afraid
A good lover isn’t afraid to try. Regardless of success, looking into the eyes of an attentive stare shows their heart is in the right place. It can be like eating a bad meal that you know has been made with that secret ingredient we call love. In both circumstances, you should offer honest opinions when questioned. And if you really like them to the point that you know you’ll be having much more of their ‘meals’ in the future then please I urge you to do so kindly without even being prompted.
People are far too polite, even the wanker who never called you back. Everyone gets scared to speak out of turn, in case of offense, and ultimately the person who needs help (be it in the kitchen or bedroom department) never learns. Even worse: never knows.
Curb this tomfoolery by opening the window of communication. You’re willing to be naked with them, so you deserve to enjoy it. Here, Jill provides a variety of statements that define exactly what I’m on about. Don’t be afraid; be logical. Tell them when it’s bad with as much conviction as if you were screaming in ecstasy. Monkey see, monkey do – they’ll follow suit and who knows, maybe you’ll find out that your ‘signature tongue thing’ you do during… well, yeah, just don’t do that anymore, ok?
